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What Story Do You Tell Yourself?
July 19th, 2010 by Jim Martin

This morning I readSeth Godin’s blog and really liked what he said.

He asks a very important question:

What story do you tell yourself about yourself?

I know that marketers tell stories. We tell them to clients, prospects, bosses, suppliers, partners and voters. If the stories resonate and spread and seduce, then we succeed.

But what about the story you tell yourself?

(Read the rest of the post here.)

After reading this post, I continued to think about this. What story do I tell myself about myself? How about you? What story do you tell yourself about yourself? The stories we tell ourselves will impact what we conclude about ourselves. For instance, because of these stories some of us conclude:

  • “I can’t.”
  • “It can’t be done”
  • “I know something bad is about to happen.”
  • “I never get a break. You wouldn’t do any better if you had been through what I’ve been through”
  • “You can’t expect much from me. I am a victim.”
  • “If it wasn’t for ______, I would have done much better.”


Question:

What is your experience with this? What has been the impact of the stories that you have told yourself?

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2 Responses  
  • Kent Sutherland writes:
    July 19th, 2010 at 4:23 pm

    For a long time I bought into all the ways well meaning people were feeding my professional ego. Humility isn’t a natural state of mind for some preachers like me, but at some point I actually began to see myself as my Father sees me. I have asked lots of good people to write a short paragraph that depicts how they think God sees them. The responses are all over the map.
    So, here’s the bottom line for me – “But now he has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation – if you continue in your faith…” Colossians 1:22 NIV
    I had to fight through a lot of “performance religion” training to get to a place of grace but with the patience and presence of the Holy Spirit, the stories I have learned to tell myself all begin and end with Jesus Christ.

  • Jim Martin writes:
    July 21st, 2010 at 11:52 am

    Kent,
    I relate to what you said. For a long time, I did something similar to what you describe. Only when well meaning people would say something affirming I tended to discount it, thinking that if they really knew me they would not say something so flattering. At the same time, when someone said something rude or harshly critical I tended to let it become debilitating. Bottom line is that I was getting my identity and sense of worth from others instead of God.

    Love what you said regarding the stories that you tell your self beginning and ending with Jesus.


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