What is the secret?
You are not to tell anyone about the way things really are in this marriage, this family, or this church. After all, what would people think?
Of course, I do appreciate husbands and wives who obviously love one another. It is really nice to see husbands and wives who still have much affection for one another after many years.
I do remember seeing an interesting Facebook status one day. It said something like this:
Twenty-five years ago I met the man of my dreams. We have loved together, laughed together, and dreamed together. I am so fortunate to be this man’s wife. Looking forward to the next 25 years.
Now many people enter a status like this one on their anniversary or spouse’s birthday. What struck me as odd about this particular post is that it never occurred to me (and I suspect many of their other friends) that she in any way adored or treasured this man. In fact, it really didn’t appear that they valued each other very much at all. The way they treated one another each day made such a post on their anniversary seem odd.
It was almost like she was trying to sell something to the rest of us.